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The Good, the Bad & Everything in Between: ‘Passionately Failing Towards Success’.

Writer's picture: Kristyl NehoKristyl Neho

Updated: Sep 19, 2022

People say that being yourself and being real is everything. But, is it? Particularly in this day and age where so many people online are faking it and making it. Pretending to be something they are not just for clicks and views. Showcasing themselves in very contrived ways and surprisingly, a lot of people in the world support it. The same where people say horrible things about each other, troll and drag others down. Then, in all these, they still claim to be real. I don’t think we should be able to say whatever comes to mind as if we have every right right to do so. I think we need to filter more. Just because I don’t agree with something doesn’t mean I need to let them know. Just because someone doesn’t agree with me doesn’t mean I should go in on them.


Social media definitely has its pros and cons. If I had a choice, I would love to be offline. However, as a Storyteller/Artist, I need an online presence. As a business owner, I have to promote what I do. So, I have been thinking about how I want to showcase myself moving forward. How can I do it in a way that I can continue to add value in the world?


This has been a journey that I've been trying to figure out since 2017 and not being very successful at that. I continue to wonder how I could showcase myself and get engagement with my online presence especially amidst nudity, toxic drama, spilling the tea and violence that seem to have the most draw. On the other hand, I can see how positivity, clean language and candor doesn't get as much attention.


I have always wanted to be someone who is open and honest, sharing the good, the bad and everything in between. Back in the day, my brother used to say that I had to be careful about what I say because people would use it as ammunition against me. As I have gotten older, that no longer worries me. If people want to talk about me behind my back, I am not fazed. I know myself enough and my consistent actions tell the world who I really am. Most of my online interactions have been filled with people who do not understand that sharing the good, the bad and everything in between is part of what makes us human. No one is exempt from the struggles. I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that I will be successful, so I want to share that journey with others.


So, as I work on my 3 challenges, my new goals and updates on my vision board, I am pondering and deciding what is next in my life. I feel like the past few years have led me to this point and now I need to reinvent and dream bigger. So, how can I be me and do what I love and hopefully inspire others to do the same? My next stage in life will take me 2 more years. Watch this space as it is time to continue becoming the woman God destined me to be.





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